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First day outside since slef isolating

I have just returned from my first foray into the outside world in 7 days. It was surreal ...Chiswick High Road is normally a vibey and buzzy place lined with pavement cafes full of people just hanging out and chilling, so for me today was incredibly surreal. No people, no traffic on the road, no fumes, no buses, no trucks, very few vans, no planes flying overhead, no pavement cafes, just ... nothing!This air of surrealism was not helped by the bright sunshine to the West and the low, black clouds to the East. All it needed was a few crows to land on the telephone wires and the Hitchcockian vibe would have been complete.The people queueing outside Waitrose were all observing the 2m distancing but most were leaving 3m. No couples and no children in the line. Not a long queue though and within 5mins I was inside the store. Lots of people in surgical masks and everybody apologising to each other for encroaching on each other’s 2m social distancing space, unavoidable when going up and down a shopping aisle. But the actual shopping was fantastic! Keeping shoppers to a minimum meant that I could get everything I needed (apart from eggs) and was a ctually a lot quicker than a normal pre CV-19 shop. It was really rather pleasant.For me the worst thing about this lockdown (apart from not being able to hug people - I am a tactile hugger) was the empty fridge at home and the feeling that we would never be able to eat properly again. To actually be able to buy what I needed was a huge relief to me and I could actually feel a weight being lifted from my shoulders as I left the store.If we learn only one thing from this awful CV-19 experience let it be this: we should never take anything for granted ever again. We are all of us human, we are all the same, we all deserve respect and compassion, and on this small and insignificant planet we are all in the same boat.Big Love. x

Chris Blackwell ● 2410d2 Comments ● 2410d

COVID-19 - What it really means.

Last might I took a phone call from Dave, my oldest friend from college. He lives with his wife (also has two adult children) in another part of the country, where he owns a small packaging company.I had assumed his company would be closed down as non-essential, until he explained that they have to stay open since they supply food and pharmaceutical companies.He employs 10 people, including his daughter in the office and his son in the warehouse. They currently have 7 staff off, inc son and daughter, either because they have symptoms or because they have a family member with same. This leaves Dave, an office secretary and a warehouseman to carry on.  But that's only the half of it. His wife has a very serious health condition, so is terrified that she might be struck down. And the reason he phoned me yesterday was to let me know that his father had just died from the virus. Now it should be said that his father was 88 and living with advanced dementia in a care home, so it was not completely unexpected. But the point is, he was basically confined to his room, so it must have been brought to him by a staff member. The care home now has six (I think) more cases to deal with.Meanwhile, his wife of over 60 years barely got to wave goodbye from a distance as they loaded him into an ambulance to take him to hospital, where he died very soon after.That is the reality of this bloody disease and anyone who isn't taking it seriously is a complete idiot (or worse).

Richard Cathcart ● 2411d1 Comments ● 2411d